Dohyeok and Nabi’s Conflicting Ideologies (25 July 21)

While I love seeing healthy relationships flourish on screen, I feel like Nabi and Do Hyeok may not actually be the perfect fit. Their story follows the childhood friends trope. And I truly believe they should have gotten their dedicated show. But that show is not Nevertheless.


Something that you may have missed is how different they are ideology wise. And yes, opposites do attract. But I'm just pointing out certain things that aren't congruent. 


The one specific incident is the falling leaves incident. Do Hyeok is a die heart romantic and he tells Nabi to catch a falling leaf and make a wish. She caught it but she brushed it off. If you like someone, you end up doing things that you may not necessarily believe in.


But Nabi didn't do that. She stood her ground and said she doesn't believe in these things. Which indicates that she doesn't feel the need to do things simply because they make Do Hyeok happy. Which he surely would. Hence, it's not a reciprocated relationship.


The second incident is when they're talking in the trailer and she falls asleep. She wasn't paying attention to what they were talking about. It wasn't gripping/intriguing enough for her. And while she may be in awe of his affection and gestures it doesn't seem reciprocated.


And plus, she denied liking someone which is highly misleading.


Her ideologies in certain things coincide with Jae Eon more. They both don't believe in love. Nevertheless,


That's the theme of the show. To prove your prejudices about love and relationships wrong. 


And imperfect people can form bonds that may have a twisted perfection in them. I guess it's just a matter of time. I hope that Nevertheless Ep 7 can provide me with an answer. 


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