Dohyuk’s Problematic Persistence (08 August 21)

Yes, my own opinions lean towards this thread. I've not been and still don't feel comfortable with people thinking she's at fault in this situation. 

Some people say, why does she still meet up with him? If you look at the situation from the start, you'll realise that NB was very happy to be reunited with a childhood friend. She treasures her friendship with DH and doesn't want to hurt him. 

When she offered to help with the videos, she said she thought he'd just email her. She never offered to meet personally. But when he did, she just acted as a good friend would. See NB's focus is always on his food not on spending time with him. 

But DH takes all this as a sign that he has a chance - sure that's fine if he wants, but it's not NB's fault he's misreading. Yes NB needs personal space, and it'd be better for her to recognise and ask for that. 

But what is NB to do if he insists on doggedly pursuing her? Why is she responsible for his actions? Especially when he already knows she has a lot on her plate emotionally? Why isn't he responsible for himself? What are you, viewer, expecting of women in real life? 


doramaticbites in response to sika_dm

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