A Lover's Discourse and Nevertheless (4 February 24)

“(…) As a matter of fact, that cry is still a cry of love: “ I want to understand myself, to make myself understood, make myself known, be embraced; I want someone to take me with him.” That is what your cry means”

-A Lover’s Discourse



“The other's body was divided: on one side, the body proper--skin, eyes--tender, warm; and on the other side, the voice--abrupt, reserved, subject to fits of remoteness, a voice which did not give what the body gave. (…) “ -A Lover’s Discourse 



“As a jealous man, I suffer four times over: because I am jealous, because I blame myself for being so, because I fear that my jealousy will wound the other, (…)”


-A Lover’s Discourse



(…) because I allow myself to be subject to a banality: I suffer from being excluded, from being aggressive, from being crazy, and from being common.”


-A Lover’s Discourse 



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